there are guys like that! just need to look harder! my BIL is in
total agreement with my sis on the kids issue, loves to read etc on
yr list (ok, minus the animals bit since my sis is no fan of
pets!)
I've met men like that here actually. 
I've also met women like that! 
I'm open to the idea of having a female mate, NOT a lesbian
relationship, but a female buddy, single like myself, with the same
interests and all that, sharing expenses and living under the same
roof but having enough private space.
At least, you have a companion and you can plan to attend
functions and events and even enjoy holidays together.
I think I want companionship more than anything.
